Both men and women sometimes just have the urge to get down and have some good sex without any foreplay. Have you come home from a stressful day at work, or maybe just lounging around the house and had the feeling of just having some sex? I am sure you have and did you act on it? If so the feeling can be erotic for both you and your partner.  Kissing should always be a part of sex, however the location does not matter.  If he or she is sitting on the couch, sit on their lap and begin kissing them hard and with passion.  Remove your shirt and theirs so you can feel your bodies against each other.  Use your hands to explore their body and remove other pieces of clothing as needed.  You can even hold their hands down and nearly force yourself on them.

Why No Foreplay?

Not everyone craves foreplay all of the time, especially oral sex.  Yes it is a great benefit for both you and your partner, but sometimes men and women just want to have hard, rough sex.  The pleasure of just going at it with lots of passion for one another has great sexual stimulation and can lead to something new…spontaneous sex!  Throw him or her against the wall (not hard) or lift them on the table, push them down on the couch or bed.  All of the actions can be a turn on for most men and women as it can fulfill a fantasy of nearly being raped by you.

After A Nice Night Out

Either going out for dinner and drinks,  a nice movie with some form of sexual content, at the club dancing or even a party at some point in time she will have sex on her mind.  Having a fun night out together loosens the both of you up sexually and neither one of you can wait until you get back home.  As soon as you get in the door, rip the cloths off and start having sex without even thinking about foreplay or making it to the bedroom.

You Have Been Away

Just returning from a business trip, family visit or vacation that has the two of you split up for a period of time makes from some great arriving home sex.  The time apart from each other has made the both of you realize how much you love each other and how you cannot wait to see one another  again and just fuck like crazy.  If one of you are picking the other up from the airport you may not even make it home.  The bathroom or in the parking garage will be just fine for the two of you.  Which brings us to…

In A Public Place

Drinking and dancing at a club together can enhance your sexual desires for one another.  Especially if you are dancing together with people you know or let her try her wild side and dance with strangers.  That dark corner of the room, sitting on your lap or sneaking into a bathroom stall to have sex right on the spot will require no foreplay on either parts.  You are horny and have a want that needs to be fulfilled so you toss the rules and chance of being caught to the side and go for it.  This could also fall into taking part in your women’s sex fantasy of doing it in a public place.

Not A Lot Of Time

With time not on your side and the both of you in the sexual mood, foreplay is out of the question as the both of you want to have a quickie to please one another.  In the morning before work, when the kids are outside playing, home on a lunch break, picking them up from the airport are all situations where time is not on your side.  Having a quickie adds excitement to your sex life and should never be avoided, at the same time it should not always be used either.

Conclusion

I am by no means saying that you do not need to please each other with foreplay.  Every man and women loves kissing, nibbling, playing with your hands, tongue, oral etc.  However, their does come a time when a women just wants to have a good hard fuck and nothing more.  Try it sometime, you may be surprised as to the outcome you get.

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Every man and woman has some kind of sexual fantasy, either one or several they wish to live out at some point in their lives.  The type of sexual fantasy does not matter, it is an act of sex that you wish to enjoy with your partner.  This article will be based on a couple wishing to live out their fantasies and the idea came from a conversation I was having with @mszidgaf on twitter.  The key thing to remember is it is a “fantasy” and does not have to come true or be lived out.  The fantasy may sound fun, exciting, kinky and possibly adding some spice to your sex life that you are looking for.  It can also however add headaches, arguments or possible breakup’s or divorce.  Here are some examples of sexual fantasies that may just be better of staying a fantasy.

Threesome

As with most people, having a threesome is high on the fantasy list.  If you and your partner are looking to have a threesome and have agreed to try it out think about a few things first.  Will it be with a male or a female?  If it is a male, how will your husband/boyfriend feel about another man truly touching you sexually?  If it is another female will you allow him to touch that female sexually?  Will the third person be with someone you know and see often?  Some people may not fully think of the outcome and disaster a threesome can cause in a relationship, especially if you bring a friend into the mix.  Possible outcomes can be the loss of the friendship, you or your partner going 1 on 1 with your friend behind their backs and then a separation/divorce can be the final nail in the coffin.

Sex With A Stranger

This fantasy involves having sex with a complete stranger that you have never met before and probably will never see again.  If your husband/boyfriend is OK with this verbally, their could be a good chance he may regret the choice afterwords.  Will he be present to watch?  If so he could be a stop to it before anything real serious happens as he will be jealous and realize he made the wrong choice.  If he will not be present and you tell him details of the encounter after their is a chance he will regret what he allowed you to do.  This could bring on arguments, him thinking you are now a “slut” or even a breakup.  If you are allowing your man the same fantasy to come true, the same rules apply to you as well.  Saying having sex with a stranger could be fun and actually living out the fantasy are two different things.  Not only think about, but also talk about the possible outcomes with your partner before making this fantasy a reality.  If you are single, well this does not apply to you.

Swapping / Swinging

Here you will be swapping sex partners with another couple and either be in the same room together or take your new partner to another location to be alone.  The same things apply as with a threesome as it does with swapping/swinging.  Can you or your partner truly watch you be sexual with someone else and not have a problem with it?  What if you or your partner choose to meet with that couple alone and without you?  Will you just go to a club in an attempt to find the right couple or interview couples you find online?

Conclusion

The advice here should be taken seriously as it deals with your relationship and keeping it in tact at the end of the day.  Make sure both you and your partner agree fully on everything that can happen both during the fantasy and after the fantasy has been fulfilled.  If either of you are truly uncomfortable with watching someone else touch your partner then leave the fantasy as a fantasy and nothing else.  If your partner does not wish to engage in making a fantasy a reality, respect their decision and do not keep trying to push the issue.  Pushing the issue may sound like a good way to ease them into it, however it can backfire on you as well.  Your partner will take part in the fantasy, then blame you for any trouble during or afterwords since you kept nagging them into doing it.  You will hear “well you kept pushing me to do it” or “It is your fault, you are the one that wanted to do this not me”.  So at the end of the day, it is sometimes better to let a sexual fantasy remain just a fantasy between you and your partner.

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Cuddling after having sex is important to many women and should never be ignored by a man.  It is a time to relax together after having sex, hopefully the both of you were satisfied sexually and can takes these moments to spend together.  However, not all men will cuddle with a women after having sex.  They either get up to get something to eat, have a smoke or in some cases just roll over and want to go to sleep.  All of those things are common among men, just not in that order. Cuddling after sex can be done either in the spoon position, with her laying her head on your chest or your head resting on her chest.  Some may call this a sex position as well, however mostly hugging and even some kissing may go on but nothing else.

Women Want To Talk And Feel Reassured

If you have been with your partner for years or this is your first time having sex, women will want to talk after sex and want to find some reassurance that you truly care about her.  The talk could be about where the relationship is going, how was it for you, what can the both of you do differently next time or even just to say hear the words “I love you”.  Give your women the moment and pleasure of knowing you do care about her if she asks you to cuddle with her.  It will benefit the both of you and even give you time to talk about things that she really cares about and wants to know.  Talking is one of the most important things for a relationship, if you cannot be open with one another then that can be a train wreck waiting to happen.  I know you may want to get up and do something or just roll over and go to sleep, she may have other things on her mind so snuggle up with her, wrap your arms around her and enjoy the moment.

Romance and Respect

Women want respect and they deserve it, show her that you do respect her and are a romantic person by cuddling with her after sex.  Hopefully you pleased each other to a great orgasm during sex, so cuddling after sex is a way for the both of you to cool down and have a romantic moment together.  Being the guy that gets up to get dressed right after sex can be a turn off for some women or a sign you just wanted to fuck and be done with.  That can be a sign of disrespect to some women and make them feel like they are just at tool.

Waiting For Round Two

Cuddling after sex can lead to more sex for both you and her, maybe that is what she wants from you so skipping the chance to cuddle with her after sex can lead to no sex again afterwords for you.  If she was not sexually pleased the first time around, cuddle with her for a little while so you can go for round two.  Women love to kiss and touch, so after having sex this is a great time to do just that and hopefully get you ready to go again.  If you know for a fact that she would love to have sex again, this is when the both of you can introduce some oral sex into your cuddling time.  Have her help you get ready to go again by stroking you or running her mouth up and down your penis.  Touching and kissing her while she does this is a great turn on for both you and her.

Conclusion

If you are one of those guys that can care less about cuddling with a women after sex and all you want to do is go to sleep or get up and do something else then try cuddling with her at least once.  Give her the reassurance that you love and care for her, show her respect and snuggle with her to talk about anything.  For all you know this is a great time for the both of you to discuss your sexual fantasies or what you would want to try the next time you two have sex.  Do not look at cuddling with her as a waste of your time, unless she is the type that does not want to be touched at all after sex then you can get up as you please.  If you are unsure, simply ask her if she wants to go again in a few minutes.  It will never hurt to ask and you may be surprised with her response.  She may just be all over you, take complete control of the situation and almost force you to have sex again.

Let us know why you like to cuddle after sex and post your comments here.

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Every women has at least one sexual fantasy, others have many several.  This does not mean that they truly want to explore them, to some women a fantasy can remain just that.  Some women however are actually living out their sexual fantasies and realize the fun they have become and make it happen more then just one time.  Here is our list of 8 sexual fantasies that women have in no particular order. If you have a fantasy that is not listed, please leave a comment letting us know what it is.

1. Being Watched/Watching – Men are not the only ones that like to watch, women fantasize about watching other people have sex or being watched themselves.  The feeling of having an audience that can only watch is a great turn on for women, knowing they are putting on a show and cannot be touched by the person or people watching.
2. Sex With A Stranger – Almost like a one night stand, just without the date, talking, moves, dinner, etc.  Spotting a stranger that catches the eye and taking them somewhere private for hot sex knowing you will never see or hear from them again.
3. Threesome – It could be with two other women or two men, either way women fantasize what it would be like to have two sets of hands and tongues running over their body.  If the threesome is with two men, it could be to fulfill the fantasy of having two dicks to handle at the same time.  If with another female and a male, the thought of sharing sexual encounters with a women while a man is deep inside of them would be a part of the fantasy.
4. Group Sex – Being in a room full of other people and being sexually exposed for all to see is a fantasy women do have, but some are to shy to admit to.  This fantasy can be played out by simply having sex with their partner while in the room with other couples who are doing the same.  A variation of this fantasy would be where everyone is taking turns with one another to bring the sexual pleasure to it’s highest level.
5. Sex With Another Women – For many women this fantasy will always remain a fantasy, even to the displeasure of your male partner who would jump through rings of fire to see this happen. A women’s touch is different then a man and the thought of being sexually embraced with another women is an experience unlike any other.
6. Domination – Either the women will dominate you or she wants you to dominate her.  Being tied up, maybe gagged and being at the mercy of the other person is what this fantasy is about.  This can go either way, it all depends on the women and what they want.  Maybe they like to be the one tied up in this fantasy, or they want to tie you up and have their way with your body.
7. Public Sex – Being in a crowded club, corner in the room, slip into a bathroom, in an alleyway, the beach, etc. are all ways women know they are exposed and can be caught at any time.  That is what makes this a hot fantasy for them, it is the fact of knowing they could get caught and be watched by others.
8. Play Rape – Here the women wants to pretend to be the innocent little girl who does nothing wrong and is proper.  Instead they truly want to be forced into a sexual situation and be raped.  Pushed up against the wall with their hands being held above their head, having the cloths ripped from their body, thrown onto the bed or floor and forced into having sex are all examples of this roleplaying type fantasy.

Their you have the 8 sexual fantasies that women have, yes I know their are probably more that we have left out.  However that leaves the door open for you to list your sexual fantasies.  Please keep in mind that to some women these are just fantasies and not something they truly want to live out and experience.  Talk with your partner before ever setting any of these up as you may be disappointed with what she does.  Never pressure her into anything, open communication is a must have in any relationship.  Respect her decisions to keep them a fantasy and never force them on her unless she is willing to do so.

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