Not all men will know when you are ready to have sex, some of them may need a little hint as to what is going through your mind.  Even if your boyfriend or husband knows when the time is right, the things listed here are a sure way to have some fun for the both of you.  Weather your sex life is at full speed or has hit a brick wall, use some of these tips to seduce your husband and maybe even catch him off guard.

1. Wear Sexy Lingerie - Either put it on before he gets home from work or after the kids are asleep slip into one of your sexy lingerie outfits.  Call him into the bedroom or just walk to where he is and greet him with a big smile.  When a women dresses sexy, she not only feels sexy but to a man she is telling him she wants to be close to him.
2. Phone or Sexy Text Messages – If he calls you during the day, let him know what you are thinking about sexually and that you cannot wait to get home.  If you text with your husband, make a game out of it during the day while at work.  This can easily be done without letting anyone else know what you are talking about.  Sexting or sending sex text messages is a great turn on for both you and your husband.  He will be thinking about what he can do to your body when he gets home for the rest of the day making for some great sex that night.  Take it even a step further and take a picture of a nude body part and send it to him letting him know what you want him to do to it.
3. Write Him A Sex Letter - Write him a letter and leave it somewhere that he can easily find it, or just hand it to him in an envelope and say do not open this until you get to work.  The letter can describe what you want to do to him or what you want him to do to you sexually.  You can even just make the letter about a fantasy you or the both of you have just to get his mind racing for the entire day.  Men will not admit it, but they love to read these types of letters and find it as a big turn on.
4. Give Him The Remote Control – I am not talking about the television remote, but the remote to your panties. Go out and buy a vibrating pair of panties and neither your or him will regret the decision.  Men love to feel like they are in control and some women love the feeling of being not in control.  With him controlling the speed and feeling the panties are giving off, this is a great way to seduce him while pleasuring yourself at the same time.  Either do this in the comfort of your own home or if you are real daring you can wear the panties out to dinner or a movie, slip him the remote and say it is all yours.
5. Slip In The Shower With Him – Catch him off guard, wait a few minutes after he has already got into the shower and slip him with him.  He will not b expecting it and it will allow for the both of you to get real close while being naked and wet together.  Wash each other or take it a step further and tease him in the shower by rubbing your breasts with soap real good, backing your ass into him while washing, give him a hand job, oral sex or make him watch you play with yourself.
6. Watch Me Masterbate – When the two of you are alone together, start to masterbate slowly and have him watch.  You can be on the couch, bent over in the kitchen or call him into the bedroom or bathroom.  Either way your man will come to life by watching the show unfold right before his very eyes.  This can be a fantasy for some men and even women, so why not live it out for the both of you and seduce him and tease him at the same time.
7. Erotic Dancing – I know that many of you women are reading this one and thinking “yea right you are out of your mind”.  However, do not be ashamed of yourself or embarrassed as it will be a fun and sexy experience for the both of you.  Once again this can be done just about anywhere and it does not even have to be for every long.  The idea is to get his mind thinking of what he wants to do to you and your body.  Erotic dancing is a great way to get into a mans head and for some women even make their pants wet while having a little fun at the same time.  No music is needed, just a little ambition and do not be shy about it as the both of you will enjoy the experience.
8. Be Dominate – An easy way to seduce your husband or boyfriend is to just take charge and force them.  Most, if not all men will not have a problem with this tactic and can be very erotic for the both of you.  When he gets home from work or even out of the shower just tackle him and do what you want.  Hold his hands down and tell him he is not to touch you until you say he can, tease him with kisses and by rubbing your hands all over his body.  From their his natural desire for sex should take over and you will be well on your way to an orgasm.

You can use one of the seduction tips listed above or combine them together, either way these are a great way to seduce your husband or boyfriend and add a little spice to your sex life.  If you are shy or afraid to try any of these, you shouldn’t be.  Understand your husband or boyfriend loves you for who you are and you have nothing to worry about.  If anything it will excite them and make them want you even more.  That is the point in seducing them in the first place, to make him want you just that much more.

If you have other ways you have seduced your husband or boyfriend, go ahead and list them here to share with everyone else.  We encourage you to do this so you can interact and get ideas from other people.

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Talking dirty to your partner before or during sex is a great turn on for many people.  It is an easy way to enhance the mood and also find “the other side” that some do not know their partners even have.  Keep in mind that talking dirty is not for everyone and some people may find it as a turn off rather then a turn on.  That does not mean if your sex partner is of the shy type that you should not bring dirty talk to your sex life, for all you know the shyness may fall to the side and the more kinky side will appear.

Surprise Dirty Talk

If you really want to surprise sex partner, during foreplay or sex ask them a naughty question and see how they respond to you.  Yes you could be taking a risk at getting laughed at, told no way, to shut up or possibly kill the mood all together.  Then again, if you do surprise your sex partner with a little dirty talk it could enhance the moment to a level neither of you have experienced together and make for some really great sex.

Talk Ahead Of Time

If you or your partner are curious to talking dirty to one another and do not like the surprise idea, have a conversation beforehand and see what they think.  Their is nothing wrong with talking ahead of time and you should not feel ashamed or s to do so with your sex partner.  Once you are on the topic and both of you show some interest in possibly talking dirty in bed with one another, you now have a path to follow.  That path can branch off into several avenues later on down the road and only you and your partner can determine which path to take on the road to talking dirty to one another.

Lay Down Some Rules

While talking with your partner, make sure you both lay down some common rules unless the both of you have no restrictions on what can be said.  However, most people that are new to talking dirty in bed will have some restrictions so have that understanding before you even start.  Agree to never laugh at one another no matter what is said, show the same love and respect during your dirty talk that you would if you had a conversation outside of having sex.  You may want to avoid calling her a slut, bitch, whore as she may take offense to the name calling even though you two are roll playing.

Practice To Yourself

If you and your partner have agreed to bring dirty talk to your sex life, practice saying things either out loud or in your head when you are alone.  Either in the car while driving, taking a shower, mowing the grass, washing the car or if you are saying them in your head you can practice that just about anywhere.  By practicing your dirt talk, you are giving yourself an advantage before stepping foot into the ring.  Know what you are going to say, in what tone of voice so you are not searching for words during the moment.

Start Slow

If talking dirty in bed is new for you or your partner, start out slowly and do not go straight for the real kinky stuff until later.  You do not want yourself or your partner to feel uncomfortable at all.  Starting out slow would be saying things like “I love the way your hands feel on my (insert word)” or “your fingers feel so good while touching my (insert word)”, “your lips are so warm and soft, please kiss me there again” are all things to say to start out slowly.  Remember, talking dirty in bed is suppose to be a great experience to help enhance your sex life, not make you or your partner feel belittled never wanting to do it again.

Try And Talk Both Ways

Not all women or men are into talking dirty as they feel uncomfortable in doing so, so never try and force it upon your partner to talk back.  If your partner does show signs of not being shy, then talking dirty both ways can lead to an interesting night of sex.  Try and have a question and answer session with each other, this is a great way to possibly learn new things about your partner and what they truly enjoy when having sex with you.  Ask them questions so you can get a response, things like “do you like it when I fuck you this way?” or “do you like me sucking on your cock?”.  The questions are just about endless depending on the boundaries that were setup by you and your partner.  Never be offended if they choose not to answer the question, ask it again if you think they did not hear you.

Dirt Talk That Gets Real Kinky

This definitely will not be for everyone, but if you make it this far in your dirty talk then the sky is almost the limit for you and your partner.  Some women and even men like to be dominated, called names and almost verbally abused during sex.  This can enhance the sexual experience for you if both are willing and enjoy taking dirty talk this far.  No need to go into great details on what you can say as I am sure you have an imagination of your own.

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Anal sex is taboo to many and women are afraid to experience the pleasure it can bring to love making.  When done incorrectly or without any preparation, it can be an unpleasant feeling and why many women will never want to try anal sex again.  Hopefully with this guide we can show you how to have anal sex with proper preparation and enjoy mind blowing orgasms.

Never Over Clean

Some women will douche several times in anticipation of having anal sex with their partner.  In theory this may sound like a good idea, however it can actually cause more harm then do good.  By over cleaning your anal cavity, you run the risk of drying it out which can lead to a more painful experience.

Get Her To Relax

Having her fully relaxed before attempting anal sex is a must, you do not want her to be tense the entire time.  Have her lay on her stomach, give her a soothing back massage by rubbing her down with oil.  Work your way down to her thighs and back up to her shoulders.  This should put her in not only a relaxing mood, but horny as well with anticipation as to what is to come next.

Foreplay Is A Must

Foreplay is a great way to heat up the moment for what might be coming later in the night.  Remember you want her fully relaxed and in anticipation as to what you will do next.  When it comes to anal foreplay, make sure you start with your tongue or a wet finger.  Never try and insert your penis straight into the anus as she will not be ready and the muscles are to tight.  While fingering her pussy, use your other hand and slowly finger her ass at the same time.  This duel stimulation will give many women a sensation they have never felt before and bring her to a great orgasm.  If she has no problem taking one finger, try to slowly insert another finger to help stretch the anus in preparation for anal sex.  Remember never use the same fingers that you used in her ass to finger her pussy as it can cause an infection.

Use Plenty Of Lube

When she is fully relaxed, horny from the foreplay and ready to try anal sex, their is no such thing as to much lube.  The more you have the easier it will be to penetrate.  The anus does not produce it’s own natural lubrication like the vagina does, so make sure you have plenty for the night as you may need to reapply more later on.  One rule of thumb when selecting the right lubrication is to make sure that it safe to use condoms with it.  You do not want a lubrication that can actually break down the condom and run the risk of breaking it.

Use Protection

With anal sex you will not have to worry about getting her pregnant, however the transmission of STD’s can be higher with anal sex since tearing of the anal cavity can occur easier then that of the vagina.  If you are concerned from a hygiene standpoint, you can take it a step further and use a condom on a dildo if you use that during anal foreplay or wear a latex glove if stimulating her ass with your fingers.

Go Slow

When first penetrating the anus, make sure you to go very slow.  Never just try and thrust in all the way as this can cause severe pain and discomfort to her.  Instead slowly push just the head of your penis into her ass and allow her to control the speed and depth of penetration.  If you are having a difficult time getting your head to slip in, go back to using your finger to help loosen her up some more.  She can also spread her butt cheeks and hold them apart to allow you to gain access.  By going slow you help reduce the pain factor and if she can stay relaxed it will make anal sex much more enjoyable for the both of you.

Remember anal sex is not for everyone, some men might fight it to taboo for their liking.  Women can feel the same way, be afraid of the possible pain it may cause or just had a bad experience in the past with anal sex and have no desire to try it again.  Never pressure your sex partner to have anal sex, when the time is right and the right preparations are made the moment can be very rewarding for the both of you.

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Are you one of those couples who have sex in the same place, around the same time every week and in the same position?  After a while having sex in the bedroom every Thursday night in the missionary position will get old and boring.  So why not try to have sex in new places and be spontaneous to change it up a little bit.  Both men and women find it kinky and exciting to either take or be taken sexually without warning or prior knowledge.  That is why spontaneous sex can be some of the greatest sex every experienced, especially if you experience it somewhere else besides the bedroom.  Read a few of places we list below where to have sex and to add some new spice to your sex life.

1. Sex In An Elevator - Having sex in an elevator is about as spontaneous as you can get.  Just the thought of possibly getting caught is a huge turn on for many not to mention the fun the quick play time can bring for what is to follow later on.
2. Sex On The Washer – Turn the washer on and run a normal cycle, have the man sit on the washing machine and the women straddle his lap.  With the machine running, the natural movement will gyrate his body thus stimulating the both of you.
3. Sex In The Shower – Why not join your partner when they are taking a shower, it will be a win win situation for the both of you.  Imagine getting to rub your partner down with soap as your two bodies rub together.  As they rinse off, you can run your hands all over their body and foreplay can be quite fun while the water is running down your bodies.  Sex positions could be bent over doggy style, standing up with one leg up or if you can just hold her as she straddles you.  Either way, a hot shower can turn into a steamy sex session for the both of you.
4. Sex On The Counter – Is your partner washing the dishes or maybe cleaning things up in the kitchen?  Be spontaneous and begin kissing their neck as you slowly rub their chest and run your hands over their body.  Sex on the kitchen counter is not the norm, but why not?  Take it a step further as use the faucet hose to shower her pussy with warm water.
5. Sex On A Balcony – While staying at a hotel, having open sex on a balcony can bring a new sensation to the both of you.  The fact you have never done it before along with people potentially watching you can be a great turn on.  If you have fantasized about being watched while you have sex, give the hotel balcony a try at night.
6. Sex In The Jacuzzi – While at that hotel, sit on his lap in the jacuzzi and let him slide your bathing suit to the side for easy penetration.  Aggressive movements are not needed to enjoy the sensation unless their is nobody else around.  If people are there, enjoy the sensation of being penetrated in the hot water while people around you wonder what you are doing.
7. Sex Under The Stars – Depending on where you live, it may be to cold to try this depending on the time of the year.  Lay a thick blanket down and enjoy the night breeze roll over your naked bodies as you have sex under the stars.  This can be done either in your back yard (might give your neighbors a good show) at the beach or on a camping trip.
8. Sex At The Park – Having sex at the park c0uld fulfill a few fantasies in one shot.  Sex in a public place, being watched, having sex outside could all be completed by having sex at a local park.  On the bench, while sitting on a swing set or you can just go away from where everyone is at and get comfortable spooning on the ground with your partner.

If you have experienced other places you have had sex, please share them here and let’s find out which ones are the most popular by people.

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How can I last longer during sex and prolong my ejaculation is one of the most common questions that guys want to know the answer to.  Studies show that the average male lasts between 5 and 10 minutes before reaching an orgasm.  Most men will admit they wish they could increase their stamina to last longer in bed.  With some of the tips listed below, try them and see which one or combination of them work best for you.

1. Squeeze – A common thing to try right before you feel yourself reaching the point of no return is to firmly squeeze right below the head of your penis.  This will push blood out of the penis and in stop yourself from ejaculating.  Remember not to squeeze to hard as it will of course cause pain to yourself and possibly result in losing your erection and killing the mood for both you and your sex partner.
2. Kegal Exercise – With this exercise you will be squeezing your butt cheeks closed and holding them for 10-15 seconds and then releasing.  Repeating this with repetitions to help strengthen the muscles responsible for controlling your ejaculations.  You can start by trying this while going pee, simply stop your stream while trying to hold it.  You can also use this exercise just about anywhere and nobody will even know what you are doing.  By strengthening these muscles you have more control over your ejaculations by being able to stop yourself before you are at the point of no return.
3. Slow Down – Instead of trying to be a jack hammer the entire time, slow down and do not focus only on long, hard thrusts.  If you are in the missionary position or with her on top, you can simply rub your hips up and down to stimulate your partner while still penetrating.  Some times slow is better for both you and your sex partner, not everyone wants to be “wam bam thank you ma’mn”.
4. Her On Top – Just as described above, let your partner be on top and have the control.  She will control the pace and how you are penetrating her which will also allow her to find that sweet spot that makes her reach an orgasm.
5. Go Again – If you find yourself not lasting long enough in round 1, then why not just go for round 2?  Most men will last longer the second time around since they have already reached a full orgasm.  This will benefit for you and your sex partner in the long run, you both just need to be willing and have a little patience to actually start round 2.  Waiting an hour though might be to long for some men, the quicker you can get aroused again, the quicker you and your partner can enjoy having sex yet again the second time around.
6. Please Her First – If you find yourself not lasting long enough in bed during sex, why not give your women an orgasm first?  Either with your hands, fingers and oral sex are all great ways to stimulate her vagina to where she will reach a full orgasm before you.  This might not solve your premature ejaculation problem, it will however prolong your time of having great sex with her.  Remember sex is not always about penetration with your penis and calling it a night, women love foreplay and I bet you enjoy it as well.
7. Put Your Mind Elsewhere - Think about anything other then seeing yourself cum and reaching a full orgasm.  Sports, what you have to do at work, something you saw on TV, anything but the fact that you want to cum and have that great feeling of reaching your orgasm.  Now don’t lean over and start watching the television while trying to have sex with your partner to where she can see you, that will just bring up a whole other set of issues that you will have to try and explain and deal with.  The best positions for trying to think elsewhere would be doggy style or reverse cowgirl as you are not facing your partner to where she can see what it is you are doing.  This technique may sound out of the ordinary, but it will work as long as you can put your mindset anywhere but thinking of yourself reaching an orgasm.
8. Practice Masturbation – If you masturbate, you can apply a few of the above techniques into one to make yourself hold on longer.  Do not think of trying to make yourself cum right away, instead get yourself aroused and before you get the feeling of yourself being ready to cum then practice your kegal exercise or the squeeze technique.  Once you are aroused, think of something other then your partner being naked or how you want to see yourself all over her body.  Reaching an orgasm is all mental, once you can understand and control that you will be able to last longer in bed.

None of these techniques are guaranteed to work the very first time you try them.  It will take some practice and forcing yourself mentally as to when to allow yourself to reach an orgasm.  Being able to control your ejaculations is really what you are looking to do and the more you practice some of these techniques the better you will be in the long run.  Eventually your sex partner will be the one that is already done, maybe twice and you are still controlling yourself to hold on.

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If your sex life is getting dull or if you are just looking to try something new to your already great sex life, playing sex games with your partner is a great way to add some spice to your sex life.  Keep in mind both partners (or more if you are with a group) will have to be willing to participate to make these a truly enjoyable moment.

Roll The Dice

You can order sex dice that already have what to do on each side, or you can simply create your own from normal dice.  Have you and your partner each pick out 3 things for each side of the dice.  You will want to make two categories so you can you use two dice for your game.  Example categories could be:

1. Body position
2. Sex location
3. What to do
4. What body party

Take your first dice and simply trace around the dice with a color marker so you will be able to tell the difference between the two. Then each of you write down your 3 actions that will be used on each dice.  Roll the dice and see what numbers you get, simply reference back to the sheet you and your partner made to see what you now have to do.

Strip Card Game

The most common strip card game is strip poker, but if you or your partner do not understand fully how to play poker then pick a different card game that is easy for you.  Why try and play strip poker if one of you does not understand how to play, that is just a mood killer and will make the card game that less enjoyable.  You play to win, the loser will have to lose a piece of clothing specified by them unless you place a wager before each card game.  Once all the cloths are gone from a player, you can make the wagers a sex act they will have to perform on their partner if they lose the next game.  This is simple, fun and an easy way to add some spark to your sex life.

Truth or Dare

I am sure everyone has played this game at some point in their life and the rules still apply just wither higher stakes.  All questions with revolve around sex and nothing is to be a secret.  Want to know your partners out of the world sexual fantasies, then play truth or dare to find out.  If they choose not to answer the question, they will have to perform whatever dare is presented to them.  The dares will be sexual of course, why else would you want to play this game? You can be as simple as kiss me for 30 seconds or you can go all out and dare them to do something to you that has never been done before.  You could even take it a step further and dare them to let you try something sexual on them.  This really is a win win situation as you both get to experience the fun together and possibly learn something new about your partner’s sexual desires.

Copy Cat

This game will require a television and an adult movie.  Either on DVD or ordered through pay per view where you and your partner will have to copy what is currently being done in the sex scene.  You can try this out in the bedroom, but you may find yourself making your way to the couch, kitchen, bathroom, dining room table or even outside on the porch.  If you are truly trying to copy what is being done in the movie, watch the entire scene and then take the sex to that same location. Try to remember exactly what they were doing and attempt to copy that with your partner.  You can stay in the bedroom or living room the entire time if you like, this will allow you to always be watching the movie and be able to switch what you are doing just as they are in the movie.

If you or your partner have certain restrictions like anal sex or certain positions that you are uncomfortable with, state those before starting the movie.  During any of those scenes you and your partner can continue doing what you previously were doing or simply snuggle next to each other until the scene is done or the position has been changed to something more of your liking.

No Hands!

This game can truly heighten you and your partners orgasm because during the entire time no hands are allowed to be used.  Everything is still fair game, so try your best to please your partner without the use of your hands.  The first person to use their hands will lose the game and then have to do whatever the other persons says they have to do.  This game will truly make your orgasm that much better as you have rules to follow and pleasing your partner with every body part other then your hands can truly be fun.

Conclusion

Sex games are not for everyone, some women and men just have no desire in playing them.  If that is the case, do not force them to play or nag them week in and week out as it can just push them away from any sexual desire with you.  Their are board games that can be purchased as well that will go into greater detail, however these games cost almost nothing and will add a new flavor to ones sex life.  If you have other sex games that you have played, please leave a comment and share with everyone else.

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